Like when your husband hands you the milk jug and says "smell this," when is it appropriate to stick your nose into something if you know it is going to smell bad?
It is believed that two members of our "group" are hooking up. Wouldn't be a problem, except one is married. I was told by someone what we all suspected and asked to speak with one of the "guilty" parties since I am close to them. Not sure if I want to. Don't really think it is my place to. I think everyone kind of already knows it is going on and is just looking the other way. If the husband knows, but doesn't want to come to the realization that it IS true, I don't want to be the person to make him look past those rosy glasses. But frankly, I don't want to get in the middle of it...let it run its course, hopefully it will end without a huge mess and all parties will return to their normal lives...that is what I believe will happen. I don't want it to come back on me because I "called someone out" because of some clause in the good friend manual that says I should have a motherly, or concerned friend, conversation with this person. Seriously, I don't care. I don't think less of these people...there is a crazy hippiness about this group of friends...free love type stuff. I don't know why another person thinks it is my duty to have the talk with this person. Im not in high school anymore. If its going on, have fun, be careful, all that happy horse shit...Im going to go shake my pon poms in the corner and pretend I don't see anything going on.
What do you guys think? Is it my place to step in and say something or do I let it ride and play itself out?