Ok, so this post may be a little TMI, so if you can't handle sex and penis and vagina...words like that, look away, close this page... you have been warned!
I am frustrated. I don't know how to come out and say this politely, so I am just going to say it. My sex life sucks lately. Kevin has been having problems...down there problems. (He would kill me if he knew I was writing this right now.) But basically, we start getting all hot and heavy, he's excited, I'm excited, but his little man won't get excited. This has been going on for over a month now. I can handle once or twice, but when it starts happening all the time, it's time to take action. You can tell it really bothers him and of course it bothers me. I mean, I want to have sex with my husband. It has been over a month...I am a highly sexual person. I can't take much more and yeah I have toys, but it's just not the same. It happened again last night and I no longer cry when it happens, I just get pissed that I spent time putting a limp dick in my mouth for nothing-worst feeling ever, that and wet sneakers. It gets semi hard and then just deflates. He hasn't beat off in forever, so I know its not just me. He wants to have sex, his penis just has other ideas, like sleep apparently. He told me that he is going to go see a doctor. But he said this last time. Do I make an appointment for him? I know he will get pissed if I do. Do I call up Dr. Kuns (who Im friends with) and ask for some cialis or viagra or what ever pill of the week it is? Im just plain frustrated. Im horny damn it and Im sick of going to bed ready to hump my pillow...that's what I have a husband for. We have never lacked in this department so I am at a loss. I want my saucy, hot, crazy, sexlife back. I want my penis back. Any advice?
Hhhmmmmm....I don't know what to say about this. I would probably make him an appointment, but I'm not known for my tact. I wish I could offer better advice...All I can suggest is making the appointment together. If you go behind his back and make it he'll probably be angry. I'm sure it's really embarrassing for him, but he can't let that stop him from seeing a doctor--he probably just needs that "let's do it now" push.
ReplyDeleteYeah I'd say make an appt. I know that stress and anxiety can do this to guys and also depression and anxiety meds can too. Is he worked up about anything or taking something right now that could cause this? And you know what? Don't feel bad... I've been there and I'm pretty positive we've ALL been there for this scenario if we've been in a long term relationship. right everyone? :)
ReplyDeleteWe went through this when we were trying to get pregnant. I think my husband was too stressed out and pressured. I think your hubby is so worried about it, that it's having an effect on his wee. Or he might be really stressed or tired. Maybe he needs spontanuity? (I really tried not using my husband's name or the word brother so you didn't puke . . .you just did didn't you. I'm sorry!)Just trying to help a sista out! Either way, if he wants to and just can't, maybe an appointment is needed. I hope the both of you figure out the problem and get back to making the sexytime.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely need to make an appointment together, I think. Doing it behind his back will prolly hurt his pride more. Can only imagine how bad he's feeling about it already. Hope you get it figured out soon...so you can get back at it! I know how I get when I have to go too long without the sex, and it ain't pretty.
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