tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667370901340526088.post5270873501938608271..comments2023-05-12T02:52:34.030-07:00Comments on Klinebauer Korner: And then I get this...Haleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03577334177197616786noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667370901340526088.post-42058093389632184092009-07-28T06:18:03.059-07:002009-07-28T06:18:03.059-07:00So frustrating. And unfortunately - she's not...So frustrating. And unfortunately - she's not going to listen and she will learn the hard way. I understand your anger - you try to help and she won't listen or accept it. I've been there, and I've had friends who've done this and won't listen to me, and I get to a point where I say, 'then stop complaining to me. i'm sick of hearing it when you won't do anything about it.' you can only listen and be supportive for so long before it's obvious the friend is taking advantage. So at some point you have to just walk away and let her make her mistakes. And hopefully you won't lose her all together. So sad!Brandiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14650612252443297585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667370901340526088.post-68196215300135936492009-07-27T21:40:12.087-07:002009-07-27T21:40:12.087-07:00Frustrating and maddening and saddening on so many...Frustrating and maddening and saddening on so many levels. It's hard to care more about a person and their situation more than they do. I agree with Jen - this may be a situation, no matter how hard, that you just have to step back from so that she can work her way out of it. I do hope you don't lose her.Lizzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992040224578840160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667370901340526088.post-88941613320419402732009-07-27T14:46:32.228-07:002009-07-27T14:46:32.228-07:00Before I got married, my husband and I had to go t...Before I got married, my husband and I had to go to one of those classes where they make you think about whether this decision is right for you. I remember walking away with some of the best advice ever...<br />No matter what your spouse does wrong, don't share your problems with friends or family. They will always remember the bad things you told them.<br />If she doesn't want you to judge him then she shouldn't talk to you about it. I know she's looking for a shoulder to cry on, but if it's going to be yours then she has to be able to take the advice you're going to give her. <br />I think she's going to need more therapy.Atomic Lolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15983858845379304701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667370901340526088.post-15065799960161493272009-07-27T13:35:13.785-07:002009-07-27T13:35:13.785-07:00I asked her if she was mad at me because I basical...I asked her if she was mad at me because I basically told her it wasn't worth the fight, she stated that she is just in a hard place, that it is easy for everyone to tell her to walk away, but she loves him and it isn't easy. I totally understand, but any man that continually cheated on me would be out the door. no matter how much i loved him.Haleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03577334177197616786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667370901340526088.post-75005471135829320402009-07-27T13:23:34.793-07:002009-07-27T13:23:34.793-07:00Tough love sister. It's going to be difficult ...Tough love sister. It's going to be difficult to let her "learn the hard way", but at this point I think you are allowing her to walk all over you. She's taking advantage of your friendship. It sounds like she isn't going to take anyone's advice, but wants to see you hurt with her as she goes through this mess of a marriage. Step away before she drags you down. I'm not saying turn your back on a friend, but it's going to take her realizing how alone she really is to help herself. That's my 2 cents. Hang in there girl!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00318896983881760028noreply@blogger.com